Untangled Blog
The concept for the Untangled Blog came about in an unexpected manner. One day I accidentally knocked over my necklace holder, and as a result, two of my necklaces became tangled together. It was a slow, tedious process to separate them. As I worked through the process, it occurred to me how these necklaces represented our lives.
When untangled, the necklaces were each a thing of beauty to be worn and displayed. However, in their tangled condition, their beauty was obscured among a myriad of twists and knots. If left in that state, they would be unable to be worn, unable to serve their intended purpose.
So it is with our lives when we get tangled up in our emotions and our circumstances. We can get all twisted and knotted up inside, unable to display our beauty to others. We can feel useless and become ineffective, unable to function the way we were intended. We can lose our purpose.
We aren’t meant to live this way, and the good news is that we don’t have to. We have a choice in the matter. I invite you to join me on this journey to examine how we can rise up out of the muck and mire of our daily circumstances to live a life filled with joy and purpose … a life Untangled.
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Christmas All Year
I love the Christmas season, but it always seems to go too fast. It usually leaves me a little sad. I find myself wishing that the love and generosity we seem to extend in greater measure at Christmastime would last all year.
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The Game of Life
My son, Landry, started playing tackle football as a 4th grader last year. He joined a team that some of his classmates were already a part of, the Stampede. It didn’t take long for us to realize that this team was special. The team’s head coach, Grant Gocke, not only coaches the kids in football, but coaches them in life and their walk with God.
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All the Pretty People
For much of my life, I have struggled with low self-esteem. These struggles have run deep and wide, resulting in years of self-deprecation and self-loathing, and for many years I struggled in silence. I wouldn’t dare bring it up to anyone because that would have just made me feel worse about myself. But eventually, after I was several years into adulthood, I began to voice my private struggles to others. In doing so, I found that others were surprised to hear my confession.
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Insect Repellant
Often I have stepped out to enjoy a nice summer evening when my enjoyment is suddenly interrupted. Without notice, I become the innocent victim of a blood-sucking mosquito.
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Broken Pieces
My ten year old son, Landry, is an old soul in a young body. He loves “old” things from prior generations – music, TV, movies, pop culture, sports history, American history, and many other sorts of history. I’ve often said that he was born a century too late.
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Running on Empty
Do you ever feel like you’re running on empty? Maybe you started out with a full tank, but you have a leak that has been slowly draining your resources. Perhaps it’s a relationship, your health, your job, your finances, a bad habit, an addiction, or a combination of one or more of these.
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Golf Lessons
For Mother’s Day this year, I had the chance to spend the day with my husband and kids, just the four of us. After eating lunch, we were discussing what to do next. I wanted to do something that we would all enjoy, and I suggested that we go to an indoor golf facility.
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I Give Up!
“I give up!” How many times have you said these words? If you’re like me, you’ve thought or spoken these words countless times.
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Peace in the Storm
I frequently travel by plane for business. During one particular flight last year, as we were close to reaching our destination, we encountered a storm that brought about some heavy turbulence. Out of the numerous flights I had flown over the years, this was the most significant and prolonged period of turbulence I had ever experienced.
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The Secret to Life
When I was a young girl, I lived next door to my mother’s parents, T.C. “Butch” and Lucille Dollins. My grandparents lived in a simple, wood-framed house. It was small,